Deal With People Talking About You Behind Your Back

Be sure that people are saying things
about you, specifically, and not other
people .

Get your friends behind you, and give
them time to decide whether they want
to go against your friend for you . Rome
wasn't built in a day, and one person didn't
build it either.

Confront the rumors, depending on what
type of person you are . One is to simply
tell them to stop, which is okay if you're a
direct person. You could give them the silent
treatment. Perhaps the best way is to just
ask them what's up.

Whatever you do, Do not overreact.
Chances are that they are just jealous of you
for whatever reason.

Don't be afraid to laugh. They might want
you to fight back! But if you shrug it off, they
might leave you alone.

Be very laid back about it. The next time a
rumor comes back around about you, they'll
know you don't even care. If its high school,
the people who are talking trash about you
won't be in your life ten years down the road
nor will they help you get there. People don't
have anything better to do then talk trash
about someone, simply because they have
low self esteem!

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